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Глава 1. Шесть вопросов, которыми вам не следует задаваться (перестаньте делать это!) Dunn, Judy, and Robert Plomin. Separate Lives: Why Siblings Are So Different. New York: Basic Books, 1990. Goldsmith, Rachel E., and Jennifer J. Freyd. "Effects of Emotional Abuse in Family and Work Environments: Awareness for Emotional Abuse." Journal of Emotional Abuse, 2005, vol. 5 (1), pp. 95–123. Goldsmith, Rachel E., Jennifer J. Freyd, and Anne P. DePrince. "To Add Insight to Injury: Childhood Abuse, Abuse Perceptions, and the Emotional and Physical Health of Young Adults." Journal of Aggression, Maltreatment, and Trauma, 2009, vol. 18, pp. 350–366. Jensen, Alexander C., Shawn D. Whiteman, et al. "'Life Still Isn't Fair': Parental Differential Treatment of Young Adult Siblings." Journal of Marriage and Family, 2013, vol. 75 (2), pp. 438– 452. Richmond, Melissa K., Clare M. Stocker, and Shauna L. Rienks. "Longitudinal Associations Between Sibling Relationship Quality, Parental Differential Treatment, and Children's Adjustment." Journal of Family Psychology, 2006, vol. 19 (4), pp. 550–559. Sroufe, Alan, and Daniel Siegel. "The Verdict Is In: The Case for Attachment Theory." drdansiegel.com/uploads/1271-the-verdict-is-in.pdf Whiteman, Shawn D., Susan M. McHale, and Anna Soli. "Theoretical Perspectives on Sibling Relationships." Journal of Family Theory & Review, 2011, vol. 3 (2), pp. 124–139. Глава 2. К признанию реальности Ainsworth, Mary D. Salter, Mary C. Blehar, Everett Waters, and Sally N. Wall. Patterns of Attachment: A Psychological Study of the Strange Situation. Hillsdale, N. J.: Lawrence Erlbaum Associates, 1978. Baumeister, Roy F., Ellen Bratslavsky, Catrin Finkenauer, and Kathleen D. Vohs. "Bad Is Stronger Than Good." Review of General Psychology, 2001, vol. 5 (4), pp. 323–370. Goldsmith, Rachel E., and Jennifer J. Freyd, "Effects of Emotional Abuse in Family and Work Environments: Awareness for Emotional Abuse," Journal of Emotional Abuse, 2005, vol. 5 (1), pp. 95–123. Luchies, Laura B., Eli J. Finkel, James K. McNulty, and Madoka Kumashiro. "The Doormat Effect: When Forgiveness Erodes Self-Respect and Self-Concept Clarity." Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, 2010, vol. 98 (5), pp. 734–749. Siegel, Daniel J., and Mary Hartzell. Parenting from the Inside Out: How a Deeper Self- Understanding Can Help You Raise Children Who Thrive. New York: Jeremy P. Tarcher / Penguin, 2003. Stern, Daniel N. The Motherhood Constellation: A Unified View of Parent — Infant Psychotherapy. New York: Basic Books, 1995. Глава 3. Что за человек ваш отец Baumeister, Roy F., Ellen Bratslavsky, Catrin Finkenauer, and Kathleen D. Vohs. "Bad Is Stronger Than Good." Review of General Psychology, 2001, vol. 5 (4), pp. 323–370. Drexler, Peggy. Our Fathers, Ourselves: Daughters, Fathers, and the Changing American Family. New York: Rodale Press, 2011. Gottman, John, Lynn Fainsilber Katz, and Carole Hooven. "Parental Meta-Emotion Philosophy and the Emotional Life of Families: Theoretical Models and Preliminary Data." Journal of Family Psychology, 1996, vol. 10 (3), pp. 243–268. Lewis, Charles, and Michael E. Lamb. "Fathers' Influences on Children's Development: The Evidence from Two-Parent Families." European Journal of Psychology of Education, 2003, vol. 18 (2), pp. 211–228. Malkin, Craig. Rethinking Narcissism: The Secret to Recognizing and Coping with Narcissists. New York: Harper Perennial, 2016. McLanahan, Sara, Laura Tach, and Daniel Schneider. "The Causal Effects of Father Absence." Annual Review of Sociology, 2013, vol. 39, pp. 399–427. Polcari, Ann, Karen Rabi, Elizabeth Bolger, and Martin H. Teicher. "Parental Verbal Affection in Childhood Differentially Influence Psychiatric Symptoms and Wellbeing in Young Adulthood." Child Abuse & Neglect, 2014, vol. 38 (1), pp. 91–102. Pollack, William. Real Boys: Rescuing Our Sons from the Myths of Boyhood. New York: Henry Holt and Company, 1999. Schermerhorn, Alice C. "Associations of Child Emotion Recognition with Interparental Conflict and Shy Child Temperament Traits." Journal of Social and Personal Relationships, 2018, vol. 36 (4), pp. 1343–1366. Глава 4. Среди братьев и сестер Bank, Stephen P., and Michael D. Kahn. The Sibling Bond. New York: Basic Books, 1997. Bobbitt-Zeher, Donna, Douglas B. Downey, and Joseph Merry. "Number of Siblings During Childhood and the Likelihood of Divorce in Adulthood." Journal of Family Issues, 2014, vol. 37 (15), pp. 2075–2094. Boer, Frits, Arnold Goedhart, and Philip Treffers. "Siblings and Their Parents." In Children's Sibling Relationships: Developmental and Clinical Issues, Frits Boer and Judy Dunn, eds. Hillside, N. J.: Lawrence Erlbaum Associates, 1992. Burgo, Joseph. The Narcissist You Know: Defending Yourself Against Extreme Narcissists in an All-About-Me Age. New York: Touchstone, 2015. Gemmill, Gary. "The Dynamics of Scapegoating in Small Groups." Small Group Research,1989, vol. 20 (4), pp. 406–418. Jensen, Alexander C., Shawn D. Whiteman, Karen L. Fingerman, and Kira S. Birditt. "'Life Still Isn't Fair': Parental Differential Treatment of Young Adult Siblings." Journal of Marriage and Family, 2013, vol. 75 (2), pp. 438–452. Karr, Mary. The Liars' Club. New York: Penguin Books, 1995. Malkin, Craig. Rethinking Narcissism: The Secret to Recognizing and Coping with Narcissists. New York: Harper Perennial, 2016. Rauer, Amy J., and Brenda L. Volling. "Differential Parenting and Sibling Jealousy: Developmental Correlates of Young Adults' Romantic Relationships." Personal Relationships, 2007, vol. 14 (4), pp. 495–511. Rothschild, Zachary K., Mark J. Landau, Daniel Sullivan, and Lucas A. Keefer. "A Dual-Motive Model of Scapegoating: Displacing Blame to Reduce Guilt or Increase Control." Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, 2012, vol. 102 (6), pp. 1148–1163. Tucker, Corinna Jenkins, David Finkelhor, Heather Turner, and Anne Shattuck. "Association of Sibling Aggression with Child and Adolescent Mental Health." Pediatrics, 2013, vol. 132 (1), pp. 79–84. Waldinger, Robert J., George E. Vaillant, and John Orav. "Childhood Sibling Relationships as a Predictor of Major Depression in Adulthood: A 30-Year Prospective Study." The American Journal of Psychiatry, 2007, vol. 164 (6), pp. 949–954. Глава 5. Как выстраивать отношения с матерью Agllias, Kylie. "Disconnection and Decision-making: Adult Children Explain Their Reasons for Estranging from Parents." Australian Social Work, 2016, vol. 69 (1), pp. 92–104. Agllias, Kylie. "Missing Family: The Adult Child's Experience of Parental Estrangement." Journal of Social Work Practice, 2017, vol. 32 (1), pp. 59–72. Barash, Susan Shapiro. Tripping the Prom Queen: The Truth About Women and Rivalry. New York: St. Martin's Press, 2007. Blake, Lucy. "Hidden Voices: Family Estrangement in Adulthood." University of Cambridge Centre for Family Research / Stand Alone. standalone.org.uk/wp- content/uploads/2015/12/HiddenVoices.FinalReport.pdf Linville, Patricia W. "Self-Complexity and Affective Extremity: Don't Put All Your Eggs in One Cognitive Basket." Social Cognition, 1985, vol. 3 (1), pp. 94–120. Linville, Patricia W. "Self-Complexity as a Cognitive Buffer Against Stress-Related Illness and Depression." Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, 1987, vol. 52 (4), pp. 663–676. Ryff, Carol D., Pamela S. Schmutte, and Young Hyun Lee. "How Children Turn Out: Implications for Parental Self-Evaluation." In The Parental Experience in Midlife. Carol D. Ryff and Marsha Mailick Seltzer, eds. Chicago: University of Chicago Press, 1997. Salovey, Peter, and Alexander Rothman. "Envy and Jealousy." In The Psychology of Jealousy and Envy. New York: Guilford Press, 1994. Scharp, Kristina M. "'You're Not Welcome Here': A Grounded Theory of Family Distancing." Communication Research, 2017, pp. 1–29. Steinberg, Laurence D. Crossing Paths: How Your Child's Adolescence Triggers Your Own Crisis. New York: Simon & Schuster, 1994. Глава 6. Оценка последствий Badawy, Rebecca L., Brooke A. Gazdag, Jeffrey R. Bentley, and Robyn L. Brouer. "Are All Imposters Created Equal? Exploring Gender Differences in the Imposter Phenomenon-Performance Link." Personality and Individual Differences, 2018, vol. 131 (1), pp. 156–163. Bian, Lin, Sarah-Jane Leslie, and Andrei Cimpian. "Gender Stereotypes About Intellectual Abilities Emerge Early and Influence Children's Interests." Science, 2017, vol. 355 (6323), pp. 389– 391. Bushman, Brad J. "Does Venting Anger Feed or Extinguish the Flame? Catharsis, Rumination, Distraction, Anger, and Aggressive Responding." Personality and Social Psychology Bulletin, 2002, vol. 28 (6), pp. 724–731. Chabris, Christopher F., and Daniel Simons. The Invisible Gorilla: How Our Intuitions Deceive Us. New York: Harmony, 2011. Clance, P. R., and S. A. Imes. "The Imposter Phenomenon in High Achieving Women: Dynamics and Therapeutic Intervention." Psychotherapy: Theory, Research & Practice, 1978, vol. 15 (3), pp. 241–247. Dweck, Carol S. "Can Personality Be Changed? The Role of Beliefs in Personality and Change." Current Directions in Psychological Science, 2008, vol. 17 (6), pp. 391–394. Elliot, Andrew J., and Todd M. Thrash. "Approach and Avoidance Temperament as Basic Dimensions of Personality." Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, 2010, vol. 78 (3), pp. 865–906. Elliot, Andrew J., and Todd M. Thrash. "The Intergenerational Transmission of Fear of Failure." Personality and Social Psychology Bulletin, 2004, vol. 30 (8), pp. 957–971. Feeney, Brooke C. "The Dependency Paradox in Close Relationships: Accepting Dependence Promotes Independence." Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, 2007, vol. 92 (2), pp. 268– 285. Feeney, Brooke C., and Roxanne L. Thrush. "Relationship Influences on Exploration in Adulthood: The Characteristics and Function of a Secure Base." Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, 2010, vol. 98 (1), pp. 57–76. Howe, Lauren C., and Carol S. Dweck. "Changes in Self-Definition Impede Recovery from Rejection." Personality and Social Psychology Bulletin, 2016, vol. 42 (1), pp. 54–71. Garfinkel, Sarah N., Emma Zorab, et al. "Anger in Brain and Body: The Neural and Physiological Perturbation of Decision-Making by Emotion." Social Cognitive and Affective Neuroscience, 2016, vol. 11 (1), pp. 150–158. Kübler — Ross, Elisabeth, and David Kessler. On Grief and Grieving: Finding the Meaning of Grief Through the Five Stages of Loss. New York: Scribner, 2005. Langford, Joe, and Pauline Rose Clance. "The Imposter Phenomenon: Recent Research Findings Regarding Dynamics, Personality and Family Patterns and Their Implications for Treatment." Psychotherapy, 1993, vol. 30 (3), pp. 495–501. Rodriguez, Lindsey, Angelo M. DiBello, Camilla S. Øverup, and Clayton Neighbors. "The Price of Distrust: Trust, Anxious Attachment, Jealousy, and Partner Abuse." Partner Abuse, 2015, vol. 6 (3), pp. 298–319. Rohrmann, Sonja, Myriam N. Bechtoldt, and Mona Leonhardt. "Validation of the Impostor Phenomenon Among Managers." Frontiers in Psychology, 2016, vol. 7, p. 821. doi.org/10.3389/fpsyg.2016.00821 Simons, Daniel J., and Christopher F. Chabris. "Gorillas in Our Midst: Sustained Inattentional Blindness for Dynamic Events." Perception, 1999, vol. 28, pp. 1059–1074. Глава 7. Учимся управлять своим поведением, беря под контроль эмоции и мысли Brockman, Robert, Joseph Ciarrochi, Philip Parker, and Todd Kashdan. "Emotion Regulation Strategies in Daily Life; Mindfulness, Cognitive Reappraisal and Emotion Suppression." Cognitive Behaviour Therapy, 2017, vol. 46 (2), pp. 91–113. Caldwell, Jon G., and Phillip R. Shaver. "Mediators of the Link Between Adult Attachment and Mindfulness." Interpersona, 2013, vol. 7 (2), pp. 299–310. Caldwell, Jon G., and Phillip R. Shaver. "Promoting Attachment-Related Mindfulness and Compassion: A Wait-List-Controlled Study of Women Who Were Mistreated During Childhood. Mindfulness, 2015, vol. 6 (3), pp. 624–636. Elliot, Andrew J., and Todd M. Thrash. "Approach and Avoidance Temperament as Basic Dimensions of Personality." Journal of Personality, 2010, vol. 78 (3), pp. 865–906. Goleman, Daniel. Emotional Intelligence: Why It Can Matter More Than IQ. New York: Bantam Books, 1997. Mayer, John D., and Peter Salovey. "What is Emotional Intelligence." In Emotional Development and Emotional Intelligence. Peter Salovey and David J. Sluyter, eds. New York: Basic Books, 1997. Masicampo, E. J., and Roy F. Baumeister. "Consider It Done!: Plan Making Can Eliminate the Cognitive Effects of Unfulfilled Goals." Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, 2011, vol. 101 (4), pp. 667–683. Rowe, Angela C., Laura Shepstone, et al. "Attachment Security and Self-Compassion Priming Increase the Likelihood That First-Time Engagers in Mindfulness Meditation Will Continue with Mindfulness Training." Mindfulness, 2016, vol. 7 (3), pp. 642–650. Steel, Piers. "The Nature of Procrastination: A Meta-Analytic and Theoretical Review of Quintessential Self-Regulatory Failure." Psychological Bulletin, 2007, vol. 133 (1), pp. 65–94. Stevenson, Jodie C., Lisa-Marie Emerson, and Abigail Millings. "The Relationship Between Adult Attachment Orientation and Mindfulness: A Systematic Review and Meta-Analysis." Mindfulness, 2017, vol. 8 (6), pp. 1438–1455. Wegner, Daniel M. "Setting Free the Bears: Escape from Thought Suppression." American Psychologist, 2011, vol. 66 (8), pp. 671–680. Wegner, Daniel M. White Bears and Other Unwanted Thoughts Suppression, Obsession, and the Psychology of Mental Control. New York: The Guilford Press, 1994. Wegner, Daniel M. "Ironic Processes of Mental Control." Psychological Review, 1994, vol. 101 (1), pp. 34–52. Wegner, Daniel M., David J. Schneider, Samuel R. Carter III, and Teri L. White. "Paradoxical Effects of Thought Suppression." Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, 1987, vol. 53 (1), pp. 5–13. Wegner, Daniel M. "You Can't Always Think What You Want: Problems in the Suppression of Unwanted Thoughts." Advances in Experimental Social Psychology, 1992, vol. 25, pp. 193–225. Глава 8. Как строить дружеские отношения Barash, Susan Shapiro. Tripping the Prom Queen: The Truth About Women and Rivalry. New York: St. Martin's Press, 2007. Bleske — Rechek, April, and Melissa Lighthall. "Attractiveness and Rivalry in Women's Friendships with Women." Human Nature, 2010, vol. 21 (1), pp. 82–97. Campbell, Kelly, Nicole Holderness, and Matt Riggs. "Friendship Chemistry: An Examination of Underlying Factors." Social Science Journal, 2015, vol. 52 (2), pp. 239–247. Feeney, Brooke C., Jude Cassidy, Edward P. Lemay, Jr., and Fatima Ramos-Marcuse. "Affiliation with New Peer Acquaintances During Two Initial Social Support Interactions." Personal Relationships, 2009, vol. 16 (4), pp. 489–506. Felmlee, Diane, Elizabeth Sweet, and H. Colleen Sinclair. "Gender Rules: Same– and Cross- Gender Friendship Norms. Sex Roles, 2012, vol. 66 (7–8), pp. 518–529. Fishman, Inna, Rowena Ng, and Ursula Bellugi. "Do Extraverts Process Social Stimuli Differently from Introverts?" Cognitive Neuroscience, 2011, vol. 2 (2), pp. 67–73. Grabill, Chandra M., and Kathryn A. Kerns. "Attachment Style and Intimacy in Friendship." Personal Relationships, 2000, vol. 7 (4), pp. 363–378. Laakasuo, Michael, Anna Rotkirch, Venla Berg, and Markus Jokela. "The Company You Keep: Personality and Friendship Characteristics." Social Psychological and Personality Science, 2016, vol. 8 (1), pp. 66–73. Linville, Patricia W. "Self-Complexity and Affective Extremity: Don't Put All Your Eggs in One Cognitive Basket." Social Cognition, 1985, vol. 3 (1), pp. 94–120. Linville, Patricia W. "Self-Complexity as a Cognitive Buffer Against Stress-Related Illness and Depression." Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, 1987, vol. 52 (4), pp. 663–676. Simmons, Rachel. Odd Girl Out: The Hidden Culture of Aggression in Girls. New York: Harcourt, 2002. Tannen, Deborah. You Were Always Mom's Favorite!: Sisters in Conversations Throughout Their Lives. New York: Random House, 2009. Глава 9. Учимся близости Arriaga, Ximena B., Madoka Kumashiro, Jeffry A. Simpson, and Nickola C. Overall. "Revising Working Models Across Time: Relationship Situations That Enhance Attachment Security." Personality and Social Psychology Review, 2017, vol. 22 (1), pp. 71–96. Arriaga, Ximena B., and Madoka Kumashiro. "Walking a Security Tightrope: Relationship- Induced Changes in Attachment Security." Current Opinion in Psychology, 2019, vol. 25, pp. 121– 126. Campbell, W. Keith, Craig A. Foster, and Eli J. Finkel. "Does Self-Love Lead to Love for Others? A Story of Narcissistic Game Playing." Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, 2002, vol. 83 (2), pp. 340–354. DePaolo, Bella. "No Need to Marry, Have Kids to Be Fulfilled: New Survey." December 2018. psychologytoday.com/us/blog/living-single/201812/no-need-marry-have-kids-be-fulfilled-new- survey Dufner, Michael, John F. Rauthmann, Anna Z. Czarna, and Jaap J. A. Denissen. "Are Narcissists Sexy? Zeroing in on the Effect of Narcissism on Short-Term Mate Appeal." Personality and Social Psychology Bulletin, 2013, vol. 39 (7), pp. 870–882. Gable, Shelly L., Gian C. Gonzaga, and Amy Strachman. "Will You Be There for Me When Things Go Right? Social Support for Positive Events." Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, 2006, vol. 91 (5), pp. 904–917. Glass, Jennifer, Robin W. Simon, and Matthew A. Andersson. "Parenthood and Happiness: Effects of Work-Family Reconciliation Policies in 22 OECD Countries." American Journal of Sociology, 2016, vol. 122 (3), pp. 886–929. Gottman, John. Why Marriages Succeed or Fail: And How You Can Make Yours Last. New York: Fireside, 1994. Malkin, Craig. Rethinking Narcissism: The Secret to Recognizing and Coping with Narcissists. New York: Harper Perennial, 2016. Mattingly, Brent A., Gary W. Lewandowski, Jr., and Kevin P. McIntyre. "You Make Me a Better / Worse Person: A Two-Dimensional Model of Relationship Self-Change." Personal Relationships, 2014, vol. 21 (1), pp. 176–190. Mikulincer, Mario, Philip R. Shaver, et al. "What's Inside the Minds of Securely and Insecurely Attached People? The Secure-Base Script and Its Associations with Attachment-Style Dimensions." Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, 2009, vol. 97 (4), pp. 615–633. Rusbult, Caryl E., Eli J. Finkel, and Madoka Kumashiro. "The Michelangelo Phenomenon." Current Directions in Psychological Science, 2009, vol. 18 (6), pp. 305–309. Simpson, Jeffry A. "Psychological Foundations of Trust." Current Directions in Psychological Science, 2007, vol. 16 (5), pp. 264–268. Simpson, Jeffry A., and Nickola C. Overall. "Partner Buffering of Attachment Insecurity." Current Directions in Psychological Science, 2014, vol. 23 (1), pp. 54–59. Waters, Harriet S., and Everett Waters. "The Attachment Working Models Concept: Among Other Things, We Build Script-Like Representations of Secure Base Experiences." Attachment & Human Development, 2006, vol. 8 (3), pp. 185–197. |